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Why We Cry

Give me a second to provide a secondary dot before I get to the main point of this blog post. 

Recently in class I was lecturing on writing traits before my students started writing their essays. When I came to the trait of Voice / Tone, I introduced it as the magical trait. Where the real heart of writing is expressed. On my slide for this it stated that this is the connection between writer and reader.

Then, I asked them to consider their favorite musical artist. We discussed the reasons they had for enjoying their music. One student said that the artist sang about things that she connected with. I smiled and pointed at my PowerPoint.

I learned of the passing of Duncan Sheik earlier today. He was 56.

I want to cry, but I have a full day of classes.

I was in a meeting when my mom texted me that Prince had passed away. I couldn’t cry then, either.

Macklemore wrote, “In fifty-something years, I won’t be here / There’ll be a kid with some headphones coverin’ his ears / Walkin’ ’round a hallway, dreamin’ of ideas / Find himself in the sound ’cause music is a mirror” (song, “Excavate”).

Today my mirror is darker because of Duncan Sheik’s death. There will be people who don’t cry because of this, but they didn’t have the same connection, and that is OK. I did not cry when Dolly Parton passed away last month. Not the same connection.

But we all cry for someone because of the connections. The magic of voice. A voice that I can still enjoy through Duncan Sheik’s music.

This song was number 23 on my top 100 songs of all time… If you take the time to listen, you may understand me better.

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100,000 Words

It Is All Connected. My little corner of the internet where I have spent seven years writing about life. I hope I have inspired readers, made them laugh, and maybe think about things at a deeper level. In a few lines I will hit a crazy milestone; 100,000 words on just this blog. (I do have two other blogs.) I know it is cheesy, but I wanted a certain word to be that 100,000 word, while also reminiscing about my writing journey. I have about ten words to that milestone, the word is…

WHY

There it is.

I considered lots of words to be the milestone word. Words that reflect what I believe, what I do, who I am. But, in the end, the word WHY reflects a central idea to my life. Answering the question, understanding my reasons for doing things has given me a clear, yet still difficult, path to follow in my career, family, and personal life. Now that I have passed that milestone, let’s look back and discuss WHY I write.

This blog has been an adventure. 2012 was the second year of this blog and the highest word count: 21,183, yet only one like for the whole year. Last year, 2019, was the highest year for likes: 281. In one way, not very impressive. I only have just over 8,000 views total for my blog. In our social media culture this means I am an unknown. Yet, I know that people have read my posts.

  • There are 105 different countries that have read my blog.
  • For the last 5 years someone has read a post I have written every single day.
  • Over a thousand times, someone has found my blog because of a search engine result.
  • My “National Honor Society Speech” is the single most read blog post.

So, why do I write? 

First, I just have to. Writing is the lens I see the world through, especially my poetry. (You can read all my poems I wrote for the Poetry Month Challenge at my creative writing blog.) I have notebooks filled with poems. I understand the pain and joy of this world through the written word.

Which then brings me to the second reason I write, to connect with people. Every writer wants to know that someone has enjoyed their works. It means that a part of the writer has made an impact with another person in this world. That is a powerful thing. I hope my works have inspired, moved, enlightened others. Simple as that.

The final reason is that writing, creating, is fun. I love the process of creating a blog post. Creating a header, finding a video, deciding on the layout. It brings me joy, even when I write about the hardships of this life.

Here is to the next 100,000 words. And thank you, to you reader. Whether this is the first post you have read, or the hundreth, I am glad we could connect.

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