I know this is going to shock you… I have been without my iPhone for two weeks. It finally died during Christmas break. I have a replacement phone on the way, but it is back-ordered. I’ve learned a few things about how a smartphone impacts our daily life.
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First, life goes on. Honestly. in some ways, it has been good not to have my phone… or maybe I should say apps. Some readers may have noticed that I have not been as active on Twitter lately. Especially with sharing my typography photos I make with Typic. Which I also share those photos on iTagged and Instagram. I do miss taking photos and not just for the creative things I do with them.
I could not take a photo of any of my children during the break. No smiling faces as they opened presents. No fun shots as the family let our new guinea pig, Kota, play in the living room. Even worse, no chance to share those photos with Grandma and grandpa in Wyoming. I also couldn’t send text messages to other friends and family just to say hello. Let alone communicate with my wife to handle our busy everyday life. Who’s picking up who? Can I stop and get milk?
But life goes on.
I am more connected with the people around me. I’m not checking my Twitter notifications while my daughters take a bath. I’m playing or talking to them as they make bubble beards. I am getting projects completed in half the time at work. I notice how people are feeling through their eyes. And honestly, right now, I feel more relaxed. I feel free, not connected to my phone.
This feeling is interesting because when my phone first died I was stressed. I couldn’t check in on one of my favorite games, Puzzle and Dragons. Puzzle and Dragons uses a simple psychology reinforcement of tracking how many days you have played total and how many days in a row. Before my phone died, I had played for over 600 days. My streak was 496 days. Now, I don’t spend hours a day playing Puzzle and Dragons. But as you can see, I was connected to it.I won’t even discuss how many worlds I have lost in Minecraft Pocket Edition. 
I can’t calculate how much time I spent with Twitter alone. Add all the time I listen to my music, checking Flipboard, researching new apps and just texting friends, and you can see that I was connected to the phone.
There are a number of studies about our addictive behavior with technology, this is a true concern for our development as people and a culture. These last two weeks have been an interesting case study of how connected my life is to my phone. Without my phone I am more connected with the people around me. I’m more connected to what is going on in my life right now. But without my phone my connections with people and interest is affected. Connecting with my family in other states, friends and colleagues on Twitter, and even communicating with my family to make our daily life run smoothly has been lost. I miss taking photos and playing Puzzle and Dragons. I miss creating typography pictures.
I learned I can live without a smartphone and when I get my replacement to make sure I disconnect from the phone to connect with the people around me. The past two weeks have reinforced that technology should enhance our lives, not control them.
But the most interesting thing I learned is that I don’t want to live without a smartphone. And that idea is for another post, I think the mailman has just pulled up…
It is all Connected 
I remember oh so vividly the days of being phoneless. Of having to turn around and go all the back home because you forgot to tell your Mom something. If I am ever phoneless again, have mercy,Lord! 🙂
Thank you for leaving a comment. Your example made me smile because it reminded me of a time I had to run back to the house to grab my wife’s phone and drop it off at her school for her (she’s a teacher). Our phones are now part of our everyday life, almost like shoes. We don’t even think about not having our phones.
I don’t memorize anything anymore… I’m not sure this is good: -( ?? 🙂
I understand. That is another area of our technology use that we are learning how to balance. I hate to admit this, but I was asked what my wife’s birthday was for insurance last week, and it took me a minute to remember the right day. Yes, it was in my phone… but without the phone I had to rack my brain to remember the birthday of someone I love.
We’re up the creek if anything happens to technology like and EMP.Of course, if we had a EMP our phones will be the least of our worries!!
I remember most of our family’s birthdays.But as far a keeping to a schedule and not missing Dr. appointments….
Boy that the truth!!
I am a big fan of smartphones. They can do so much to make our lives easier and more efficient. Of course, they can also be a source of stress, anxiety, and anti-social behavior. As with everything, moderation is best. I like that whenever I take an international trip, since mobile data plans are so ridiculously expensive I generally only use my phone for taking notes and photos. It feels quite freeing actually knowing I’m not going to be pinged with a notification that might distract me or my experience.